Hey friends,
I can not believe that it’s already June! Time is surely flying by these days. Despite it feeling like the new year just started, I am excited about enjoying the summer season. I am hoping to spend a lot of it exploring and relaxing at the beach with my family. Mila (my new dog) hasn’t had the joy of running free at the beach, so that is something to look forward too also!
Since its June, we will be celebrating Father’s day in a couple of days. However, I think that our society doesn’t make such a big deal about it as they do for Mother’s day or other holidays. That is a bummer, seeing that Fathers are such important role models in the family. We need to try to encourage fathers AND single men a little more when it comes to being the man/husband/father/son that God has them to be. Therefore, I believe spending quality time with your father will show him that you genuinely appreciate him and will encourage him and even others.
Here are five thoughtful gift ideas to do just that!
Five thoughtful Father’s day gift ideas
1. Just sit and listen
I know that my father loves it when I listen to him explain his work or hobbies. I am a girl and have nothing to do with his line of work, but I know that my dad feels appreciated and cared for when his daughter takes the time to listen to him talk. Men are generally less talkative than women, so when your dad takes the time to talk, listen! Even if the topic is “boring” or “confusing.” If you’re a married daughter, maybe you can encourage your husband to do some guy stuff with your dad too (even if he does already, every little act of love counts). I try to encourage Devin, luckily, however, my dad and husband have some of the same interests, so spending guy time comes naturally to them!
You can also encourage your brothers to do the same when it comes to spending time with their dad. I know some sons have great relationships with their fathers, and then some feel like its a chore. We should all remember that it is through listening and talking to our fathers that we learn valuable life lessons and wisdom.
2. Plan a barbeque
I’m not trying to sound stereotypical with this suggestion, but my father loves barbequing! When my siblings and I were little, every weekend, we went to the beach to have a picnic and barbeque. Those memories are so beautiful, and we had some great bonding moments. If you don’t have a beach to go to, have the grill out in the backyard, or a park! Make sure you pick your dad’s favorite foods and invite the whole family! Don’t forget the grandparents and your in-laws too…
3. Give a customized gift
This gift will change depending on the occupation or hobby that your dad has. Maybe it could be a customized Bible, wallet, bookbag, etc. Etsy has some nice options when it comes to customizing gifts. I believe that this type of gift will be cherished for many years and make your dad feel special!
If you don’t want to buy him a customized gift, you can think of something else that you can do for him that is specific to his hobbies or work. Such as cleaning and organizing his office or workshop. Or maybe he has a tool shed or gym that needs updating. This is a great way to bond with your father and help him out too!
4. Buy that item he always wanted
My dad has wanted a few tools and gadgets for some time now. I try to make a mental note of them when he tells me about them from time to time. If your dad is anything like my dad, he probably leaves his desires and wants for last. All my life, my dad has put the needs AND wants of his family first before his. This means he lived without a lot of things to make us happy and comfortable. I am so thankful for the selflessness that he has shown me! Therefore, I want to show him that I appreciate all that he has done by being the one that provides his wants now. I encourage you to give your dad something he has wanted for some time. It will put a smile on his face!
Fathers tend to show us, sacrificial love, more often than we notice. They resemble God’s love for us in this way. I encourage you to take the time to recognize the different ways that your father shows and receives love. Trust me; you would be amazed at what he has done for you!
5. Write him a letter
Yes, I said to write a letter to your dad for Father’s Day! Make sure to fill it up with all the things that you appreciate about him! Don’t forget to include fun memories from your time growing up and tell him that you love him. Trust me, even if it feels silly, or insignificant, those words would mean so much to him! He will have it to cherish and read it over and over again. Maybe you all can start writing letters to each other more often too!
Final thoughts
I hope that these gift ideas spark some creativity and desire to make Father’s day awesome for your dad! Today’s world focuses too much on material things when quality time is key to building strong relationships. If you have any other fun and thoughtful gift ideas for Father’s day, please leave them in the comments below!
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Until next time,
yasmin rose xoxo
